How to Land a Sugar Mama
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The First Date
Most men make huge mistakes when suggesting a first date, lacking both originality and thought. Innovation will go a long way in your favor. Find out her tastes and interests in the initial conversations and make mental notes along the way to help you come up with an innovative first date idea. This is the time to impress her with what you have to offer. Since itís not money, it is imperative that you take the focus off monetary things and place your value on the intangibles.
On your date, get her to talk about herself every chance you get. By engaging her with interesting and thoughtful dialog, you will leave a lasting impression that is sure to secure a second date. Keep in mind, the first date will dictate any future opportunities or close all doors.
Once you have landed her, she's going to want to be in control of most things. She has the money and she is used to owning things. Expect this attitude from her but never let yourself become a possession of hers - you will have to give up some control but you should never give it up entirely. Swallow some pride to keep her happy. If she buys you something, wear it. She may expect you to look a certain way or maintain a particular image. You lose some power over your wardrobe and some of your activities but you will be compensated handsomely.
Seduce her mind and send her sexy thoughts throughout the day. Continuously make her feel special, as if she is the only somebody that matters. Keep it fresh. In the bedroom you will have much more control over her Ė take it. Dominate her here and you will get anything you want.
Have you ever stopped to wonder why a woman that seems to have everything is so willing to pay anything to the right companion? Thoughts of men only being interested in her money, rather than her as a person, is surely in the back of her mind. Nevertheless, loneliness is a more unsettling thought - so your trinkets, trips and toys are just part of the deal. Your relationship is more of an arrangement. Itís about what you can do for her and what she can do for you.
Women have fought to carve out their places in society and many of them have reached financial success beyond their counterparts. There has been a tremendous evolution of the female psyche and many have been liberated past the notion of serve her man. The Sugar Mama wants to ďget servedĒ by a younger, less complicated, less dramatic relationship Ė so what if she has to pull out the credit card to get it. Men have been playing this role forever without any qualms from society; itís time your woman treated you.
Like in any relationship you set out for, know the rules and understand the roles and expectations. Life can be viewed as one big game and everyone involved has a position. Be confident and aware of the type of woman you choose to be with. Make no mistake that a Sugar Mama is very clear on what she wants and is even clearer on what she will put out to get it. So put your game face on!
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