Should I Leave Her?

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Constant Arguing

If you are constantly disagreeing and arguing then this could be a sign that things have taken a turn for the worse in your relationship. Endless critiquing, bickering about small things and disagreeing for the sake of doing so are strong signs of a sour relationship.  Arguments can often be resolved quickly or settled when you are both calm enough to do so. But if your arguments often go unresolved or you both push your feelings out of the way until you build up resentment towards each other, you need to consider leaving. Many couples attend counseling classes to help deal with these arguments and try to figure the root of their problems. Some of the main areas that can cause arguments in relationships are a lack of sex, bad sex, jealousy, money, and/or interfering in-laws. If you have tried addressing the issue/working things out and yet she is still making your life hell, then ditch her. There’s nothing to feel guilty about.

She Uses You As Her Punching Bag

If she comes home and takes out all her aggression on you (and not in the cute way), is extremely temperamental, often physical and/or aggressive (including passive aggressive) towards you – then she is using you as her punching bag. You don’t need to put up with this garbage. You wouldn’t put up with this from strangers, your friends and you certainly shouldn’t put up with this from her. There are certain psychological problems, primarily personality disorders, in which women are characteristically abusive, violent or just angry toward men. Borderline personality disorder is a diagnosis that is found almost exclusively with women.  Approximately 1-2% of women have a type of borderline personality disorder.  Characteristics of the disorder include suicidal behavior, severe mood swings, lying, sexual problems and alcohol abuse. If your partner exhibits these tendencies you may want to encourage her to talk to a doctor. It could be important for both of your health and sanities.  She might make herself feel better by taking her frustration out on you, but you
don’t have to take it and you shouldn’t.

It can be hard to come to terms with the fact that your relationship will be over if you leave but sometimes you have to move on. Be a man and do what needs to be done. Some relationships don’t work out and it will be much worse for both parties if it’s prolonged beyond its natural time. You don’t need to be harsh to tell someone you no longer want to be with them, in fact, it’s probably harsher if you continue leading them on. It won’t seem like it at the time but the more time that you stall, the more time for things to become increasingly complicated. There are a lot of reasons that relationships end and you should always trust your gut instinct. Don’t be afraid to demand your worth.  Go out there and seek it. There are 3 billion women out there – find one who wont make you put up with nonsense.

 

 

 

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